WHAT CAN YOU DO WHEN THE PERSON YOU LOVE BRAKES UP WITH YOU SEVERAL TIMES?
Don’t really DON’T feel hurt my dear.
DON’T develope rage. Don’t run behind.
And trust me: DON’T RUN BEHIND HIM.
It’s not worth it.
It will only run into a kind of game, were the roles are clearly devided. If you run behind him in order to convince him to come back, you actually honor him for his bad behaviour.
This was never clear to me. Just recently I figured that out.
It’s one of the worst mistakes you can do, because he things whatever he does, you will be available anyways. And this is fucking deathly.
I know you loved him. More than anything on this planet.
But give your love to the whole world.
You are good!
The person who brakes up with you many and many times is:
somebody who can not decide for his own sake and luck.
You will be made as responsible for the unhappyness inside him
till he decides to leave once more.
Give up the thinking.
Give up the love.
Give up the idea that he ever was your best friend.
But never forget the Love of yourself.
You are brilliant.
You are beautyfull.
You think on them, because, you still love them.
Or your Ego has a problem with rejection.
You definately need to figure this out for yourself.
If you are the dumped your cards aren’t the best.
And in the cards of dumpee I can not look.
So the best is:
Ask yourself the question, what do you wanne see on the photo at the end of your life.
Direct your life as you want it to be.
DRAW your life how YOU want it.
Enjoy the loneliness
enjoy the peace of your mind.
Meet other men
meet other woman.
Forget all the good things.
Emphazise the bad things.
The things you didn’t like on that person.
Forget that he or she was once your lover,
your best friend,
the person you wanted to spend your life with.
Would your best friend go without saying good bye?
No, he or she wouldn’t.
Your best friend would talk to you,
and tell you why he is leaving.
Instead the opposite.
Your best friend would have treated you with courage,
Stop thinking on the good in that person.
Stop wishing him the best.
The opposite of love is not hate – it’s equality.
This is the aim.
This has to be the aim.
For your own happiness.
It doesn’t exist.
It never existed.
Don’t feel hurt.
Just give a fuck.
You are to precious.
You are too good.
You are too good to feel sad.
I love you.
Because you are me.